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PARENTS CLUB
My Friend, My Bully
Body Privacy
Doing the Right Thing
Understanding Beauty
Sports & Self-Esteem
A Room of Her Own
Misunderstood Praise
Developing Integrity
Being Active
Good Sportsmanship
Quality or Quantity Time
Art of the Compliment
Let Them Scream
Managing Stress
How We Indulge
Dropping Everything
Healthy Attitude to Food
Listening Beyond Words
Raising a Thinking Child
Know Where They Go
The Right Way to Praise
Positive Self-Esteem
A New Year
Making Memorable Holidays
Raising a Grateful Child
School Struggles
Back To School
Summer Learning

PARENTING TIPS
Girls Being Mean to Each Other
Keeping Your Daughter Motivated in School
Fitting in with Other Girls

ASK THE DOCTOR Q&A
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"My daughter just turned 13. We fight constantly about homework...

"My 10 year old daughter is asking about sex...

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"How do you keep sisters from fighting? "
"My issue is that when I ask my 11 1/2 year old questions that make her think about her feelings or ask her to explain her thoughts to me, I always receive an answer of "I don't know."...

"How do I, with grace and tact, convince my 10 year old daughter that she needs to have her own sleeping schedule and should sleep in her own bed?...

"My daughter is in 6th grade and seems to have a lot of friends at school but never invites anyone over to our house...

"My 6 1/2 yr. old has a hard time going to bed at night...

"My 11yr. old is overweight (4ft. 10in.@120lbs.) and very unhappy about it...

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"My daughter who is 8 years old is very smart but yet she has a hard time controlling her emotions she has had lots of stress in her life...

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DID YOU KNOW?
Did you know that asking "what" instead of "why" is more effective for addressing misbehaviors?

Did you know that it´s often a good idea to parent each of your children differently?

Did you know that cultivating gratitude in your child can promote feelings of happiness and self-worth?

Did you know that the local news and newspaper might do your child more harm than good?

Did you know that often being angry or frustrated with your children might...

Did you know that taking your role of parent less seriously...

Did you know that play can increase your child's attention levels?

Did you know that you shouldn't pay your child for their chores?

Did you know that your child does not have to "be friends" with everyone?

Did you know that you don't owe your child an explanation about...

Did you know that "helping out" could hurt your child?

Did you know that paying your child for good grades...

Did you know your body image can affect how your daughter feels...

Did you know that it´s okay for your daughter to experience problems...

Did you know that "boredom" can build skills?

Did you know that your own traditional gender roles might be limiting...

Did you know that a good disagreement can teach...

Did you know that laughter can help...

Did you know that "discipline" should always be...

Did you know that what you buy for your daughter tells her...

Did you know that overdoing compliments can make...

Did you know that knowing what your daughter is doing and with whom...

Did you know that the key to understanding your daughter´s friendships...

Did you know that rewarding your daughter for her good grades can...

Did you know that your primary role with your daughter is...

Did you know that trying to make your daughter "happy" can ...

Did you know that "quality time" does not make up for...

Did you know that most children in the U.S. watch television between...

Did you know that HOW you give praise and feedback makes...

Did you know that giving in to begging and whining may...

Did you know that taking care of your adult relationships can...

Did you know that focusing on making your daughter happy can...

Did you know that filling your daughter's schedule with activities can...

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Did you know that letting your daughter explore her own style...

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HANDLING SCHOOL STRUGGLES

by Dr. Marion Swanson

While school experiences can promote feelings of personal achievement and success, most children struggle with a learning issue at one point or another. Although most learning problems don't evolve into disabling conditions (approx. 2-3% of children are estimated to require the more intensive instruction and support of Special Education), the impact of an academic difficulty can have a real impact on your child's confidence, motivation, and enthusiasm as a learner.

Partner with your child's teacher
Take a few minutes (or write a quick note) to let the teacher know that you want to be an active partner in supporting your child's learning at home. Ask what you can do to promote his/her learning and independence. The teacher may advise you to read with your child or to check her/his homework, or you might be asked to allow your child to take on more responsibility for and independence in his/her learning – whatever the advice, take it and trust that the teacher wants the same thing you do – your child's success!

Know when to ask for help
Some learning "problems" are short-term and can almost seem to "disappear" with a little extra study time and effort. However, persistent problems or patterns should be addressed early – communicate concerns that don't resolve in a reasonable amount of time. Let the teacher know if your child is consistently struggling with homework or if you see other negative patterns regarding schoolwork. Comparing observations from home and school will help you determine the extent and the source of the problems.

Define the Problem
The basic source of any academic problem comes down to one of two things: 1) either the child lacks the skill or knowledge to complete the task, or 2) something is getting in the way of the child's demonstration of what he/she knows – in other words, is it a "skill deficit" or a "performance deficit"?

Skill deficit: If the child lacks the skill or knowledge required to complete an academic task, this can often be remedied by repeating instruction or providing varying approaches to instruction (ex: using hands-on activities, or using visuals that help support verbal information.) If teacher and parent interventions do not resolve issues within several months, discuss with school staff the possibility of formal evaluation to determine the absence/presence of a learning disability or other impairment that may require a specific instructional program.

Performance deficit: Many factors can hinder a child's ability to demonstrate what they know – determining the source of the problem is critical to resolving the problem. Some of the most common factors that can hinder academic performance are motivational issues, social or emotional issues, and attention problems – the good news is that there are many different strategies that might effectively address each of these issues. Ask to have a team meeting with your child's teacher, the school psychologist or social worker, and any other school-based specialists that might contribute to creating a plan to increase motivation, to resolve social or emotional concerns, or to increase focus and attention.

Stay positive and be patient
Don't panic – maintain positive relationships and work collaboratively with your child's teacher and school staff. Every problem has at least one solution – stay open to new ideas and approaches and don't give up! It may take some time but things will work out.




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