Tip #1:
Don’t care what other people think. I know you may think "How am I supposed to do that?" Well the fact is that you can’t change what anybody else thinks. Imagine you are at a public gathering and you have really low self confidence at that point in time. You come home and you feel really bad because you thought you where judged by other people. Your best friend, thought the same thing when he or she came home. Another person thought exactly the same thing. The point is, people care more about themselves than they care about you. So inevitably, don’t care what other people think of you. You are not put on this planet to please all. It’s OK to fail, it’s OK to be different, it’s OK to do what you feel is right for you!

Tip #2:
Allow being judged. This is something that can be really hard, but guess what. In order to boost self confidence to great heights, you must be able to do things your way and be ok with other people disliking what you do. Again, almost everybody in the world judges people, I judge people for sure. If somebody tells me that I am something negative that I know I am. Let’s say ugly, or fat... I can simply laugh it off and say, "So what, I can’t change my genes and this is the way I am, do you have something else you want to judge me by, please get it off your chest”? See there is nothing a person can say to you that you can’t counter in one way or another.

Tip #3:
Have really strong beliefs. The two tips above come down to one thing and that is having a strong self belief and solid ground in your confidence. There are many exercises you can take in order to really learn how to gain self confidence. You must get your beliefs in order first, otherwise you will always have a doubt in your mind somewhere. People are experts at destroying their own beliefs by having negative thoughts. STOP negative thoughts now.

Tip #4:
Write your goals down on paper. People who fail will write their goals down once, look at them, put pen and paper down and then forget about it. People who have learned how to gain self confidence proceed with their goals and never ever quit. I know this may sound harsh right now, but quitters remain quitters until they believe they can be winners. Be a winner.

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