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HOW TO DEAL WITH MIDDLE
SCHOOL
By: Katelyn, 13, (aka Supergirl142)
I
am here to tell you how to deal with starting middle
school. I am an eighth grader, so I am already an
expert on it. Here are some worries you may have
about middle school, and my advice on them.
- "There will be so much more work than in
elementary school! I’ll be up until midnight
every night doing homework!": This is totally
not true. Yes, there will be more work than you
had in elementary school, but not that much
more. You will most likely have more projects
and reports, but it’s nothing you can’t handle.
Besides studying for tests, I usually only have
about one hour of homework every night and
sometimes even less! The thing is, you’re
getting older, and the teachers treat you that
way by expecting that you work a little harder
than you did in elementary school. Overall, it’s
really not that hard and you’ll do totally fine!
- "All of my friendships will change and I
could end up friendless!" : Okay, so you might
not graduate from eighth grade with the same
friends you walked into school with on the first
day of sixth grade, but you won’t be friendless.
For example, I had been in a group of friends
since the second and third grades, but when I
got to sixth grade, I ended up having problems
with that group and now I have a new group of
awesome friends. The key is to make sure you
have a lot of good friends so you always have
someone to turn to. The way to make friends is
to join sports and clubs. I joined this one club
at my school and even made friends with some
kids who were a year older than me. We had a
blast, and I can’t wait to join them in high
school next year!
- "I might not remember my locker combination
or get lost in the school, and then I’ll be late
for class!": This one is so easy! Just write
your combination down in your assignment book,
folder, binder, or something you carry to every
class, and look at it if you get stuck. Carry a
map of the school around with you until you know
your way around. And, don’t be afraid to ask an
older kid for help. Most of them are really nice
and helpful!
- "I just met this boy, and now I have a huge
crush on him!": Trust me, I’ve been there
before! I met this one boy when I was in sixth
grade and the boy was in seventh. He was really
smart, cute, and funny, and I ended up liking
him for a year and a half! (I still think he’s
pretty cool...) Anyway, I never told him that I
liked him, but if you want to, you should. Also,
be careful if you want to tell a friend about
it, because once the secret’s out, you never
know what will happen. In conclusion to that,
don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation with
him. Get to know him better and show him the
true you. Don’t try to be someone you’re not,
because it will backfire! If doesn’t like you
when you’re yourself, he’s not worth going
after.
So, now you know all about what middle school
will be like! It can be a tough time for you, but it
can also be great! Remember that life’s what you
make it, so make your middle school years the time
of your life! |