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mousie123, 13, , Canada asks...
"I am volunteering at a karate camp for a week this summer, and my friend is also doing it. But the thing that makes me really want to cry and really mad is that when we are teaching/doing something, she always bosses me around. For example, today she was holding something and told me to hold it. I took it then gave it back and then she kept saying loudly, "hold it, just hold it!". I don't know what to say to her because she is my friend and I don't want to cause a big commotion in front of all the campers and get embarrassed. Help! I need help really fast because I am only doing this for 1 week! :'("
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Posted: July 09, 2012
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Animalover11, 16, KY, United States of America on July 09, 2012 answers...
"Don't be afraid to talk to your friend. Take her aside when you're alone, and tell her that you want volunteering at this camp to be an enjoyable thing for both of you, and you haven't been enjoying yourself as much because you feel like she's trying to control you and a lot of stuff, and that you'd like her to be a helper to the camp and a friend to you. So you'd like her to stop asking you to do jobs that she has been given. Say it in the nicest way possible and let her know that you didn't want to speak up before because you were worried about it hurting your friendship and causing drama that should not be there. Let me know if this helps at all! :) -Animalover11"
Clara42, 9, GA, United States of America on July 09, 2012 comment...
"i agree and it is cool your working at camp and sorry im making a comet not i anser im out of miss o tokines omg :D xoxo daNce giRl "
mousie123, 13, , Canada on July 16, 2012 comment...
"Thanks. I would have tried this because I like your advice, but while I was doing the camp, I tried logging into misso and friends but it didnt work. "
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sohi105, 11, WI, United States of America on July 10, 2012 answers...
"I think you should tell your friend. Or, you can get a new partner. If she asks you why you want a new partner, say that you want a new one. But if you can't get a new partner, just tell her. Write her a note, text, or anything! You can just be patient for a week if you want. But never, ever, do the same thing back to her. ~ Sohi105 ~"
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Cindymiss, 13, , Canada on July 10, 2012 answers...
"You can talk to her in private and bring up the problem. Maybe she didn't realize that she was being bossy. If that doesn't work out, just try to keep your cool and don't be partners with her again. Good luck, okay? :)
P.S. Cool, you're 12 and from Canada too :)"
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rl29, 14, NV, United States of America on July 14, 2012 answers...
"just tell her how you feel. if she's a good friend, she'll understand.sometimes people do that because they have something hard to deal with themselves and they take it out on other people.hope this helps.:)"
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sheilarae, 13, TX, United States of America on July 14, 2012 answers...
"Make sure you talk to her in private. Tell her that it's hurting you feelings that she's bossing you around, and kindly ask her to try and stop. Don't start a big fight in front of anybody. If she gets mad, give her a few minutes, hours, maybe even days. She'll forgive you eventually, and she'll probably be nicer to you after that. Good luck! :) -WeAreTheHungerGamesGeneration"
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